First Time Cheating.
I am currently having an affair with a guy that work with me. I am the manager of where we work, so its easy for us to stay later then others and have our late night sex once or twice a week. He's an amazing guy and our sex is awesome that it keeps me wanting more. We are both married and neither one of us want to leave our partner, but this is what we need to keep ourselves alive. I myself felt like my marriage was lacking sex from my husband and we've talked and talked, but it still does not change his sex drive. I did not intend to have an affair it just happened, i know that this affair will have to end pretty soon and i am pretty sad to have to leave this. I know that its for the best of all parties involved.
On the nights that we have sex, I come home feeling so guilty (which i know i should) and it eats me up inside. My husband is an amazing man with a heart of gold, its just that he's not satifying me like he once did. He think that having sex every other week is enough. If its enough for him great, but what about me? My sex drive is still normal, I am only 26 years old and i am at my peak. In the beginning of my affair i have to admit that i started to look at my husband as an ugly slob who does not do anything to keep himself up. I would give him hints that he's letting himself go and that he should start working out a bit. Its not even his fault, its just that my lover is very attactive man who has arms of steel. And in a sinful and selfish way I wanted my husband to look that way. I know i am wrong.
I wish that our marriage still has that spark it used to have. I try to give my husband hints to what i need and what will probably make our sex life more exciting and maybe even bring up his sex drive, but he does not seem to think that there is anything wrong with it at all. I think that being together for almost 10 years might have lots to do with it as well. Our marriage is too routine.