I Cheated On My Boyfriend And He Hit Me Please Give Me Some Advice

Okay a couple nights ago I went clubbing and saw a gorgeous looking guy. I sat down and had a drink with him and halfway through I realized this was a guy my boyfriend hated but he was so hot I couldn't resist I left and was too drunk to go home and realized I had a housekey to my boyfriend's house so I went with him and let us in and we were on the couch about to have sex and the guy said" No let's **** in your boyfriend's bed I agreed and we went. We were having sex and I heard the door opened and realized I made a huge mistake. My boyfriend called my name I tried to hide my boy toy but he pulled me and kissed me on the bed. My boyfriend came into the room and demanded to know what was going on. I hide behind the guy and he got bold and said" I tripped and my **** landed in your girlfriend sorry." My boyfriend was pisssed and hit the guy but he was drunk and uncoordinated and he got beat up. After the guy left I teased my boyfriend and said' It sucks to be you right now' like Beyonce in the video. He asked why I did what I did and I repeated the joke from earlier. He got pissed he cursed me out and called me a **** and ****. I was so hur he'd say mean things like that o me that I punched him in his face which isn't bad because I am a woman and he is a man he can take it anyway. He said stop it but I hit hm again out of anger then he said " ***** hit me one more tima and i'm kicking your ***". Out of curiosity I spit in his face and kneed him in his balls I think it's hilarious when guys get hit there. Well he got up and I saw the evil look in his eyes he tackled me and punched me in my face about 15 times then threw me out the house naked he didn't even let me get dressed. He turned the sprinklers on and I was so so cold I threw up. He hasn't apoligized and he's been on twitter and facebook telling everyone what happened and turns everything around on me. I didn't mean it I was drunk he didn't mention that I love him with all my heart please help me how do I get him back.
hbic3595 hbic3595 22-25, F 65 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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u disrespectful to your man saying that the lad u ****** was gorgeous u belittle ur man if he had done it to you would have been screaming but cos ur woman it alright to cheat on a man. ***** u rat . u actions could ur send man to prision and it will be ur own damn fault.

You deserve it & Much worse actually. Stupid *****

well said mate she crossed the line in her boyfriend house if that was me l get a girl to mash her up.
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Do what you did to u boyfriend only to the other guy and in front of u boyfriend

you sound like the scum of the earth he should have flat out killed you

***** stfu, sit down, and keep your legs closed... you got what you deserved. .you weren't too drunk to recall the whole event. Slutbucket and had the nerve to make a joke, spit on him, and knee him...he did right he shldve broke your damn hip and all the bones in ur face..I hate a cheating *** woman ughhh

Would you punch your girlfriend in her belly or breasts if she cheated or would you forgive her?

I would if I were a man

Have you ever been punched in your belly?


What if you cheated? What if your BF tied your wrists above your head then punched you in your belly and boobs? Would you think that is deserving? His fist will slam hard into your lower belly? Your bellybutton and possibly your boobs. That will hurt.

What if I cheated????????????????? WHAT??????????


I think he has some weird fetish. I think that's why he keeps asking. Either that, or his mind is stuck in the stupid, double standard, middle-ages "Never-hit-a-woman" ideolagy.

I hate people who alwyas protect the victims. Why don't they think victims are to blame too? Nobody hurts someone for no reason

Some people do, though. Some people are truely evil, and inflict suffering with literally no provocation. For example, people that torture/rape/kill people just for momentary pleasure. Those people have almost no decency or mercy.

I didn't meant mentally sick people. I mean normal people don't hurt without a reason. If aguy hits a woman then she proked him unless he's mentally ill

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You got what you deserved you should never cheat no matter what reason you may have for doing it... He may have hit you but you clearly had it coming & he deserves better (hopefully found it by now. Your nothing but a cheating ***** that gives a free pass to your dirty little fanny to any hot stranger you see in a night club... Don't waste your time looking for a Genuine guy either they'll throw you in a black bag where you belong.

U cheated on him. In his bed.
He was disrespected by guy #2
U Spat in his face
Punched him in the face and thought it was okay
You made a mockery out of him
You don't deserve him. You provoked him. I have no sympathy u put ur hands on him men have feelings too. You weren't drunk enough to black out you remember what you did you knew what you were doing.

Do him a favor and leave him alone nobody should have to deal with that kind of crap. Be a lady not to b rude but grow up and learn to control yourself. Don't drink if your not responsible and u even said that other guy was so "hot" you don't care u just want him to feel sorry for u
I would never look at another man other than my boyfriend no one else I see is irresistible it's called being faithful

the ***** aint loyal so chris brown song is right about some ******* aint loyal likethis lady story.Please reply with authenticity, support, and respect

It's sure nice to see people that don't buy into the "women have the right to treat men however they please" philosophy. All too often, women take advantage of this. I was taught this philosophy myself. As a result, girls and women mistreated me often until I started retaliating. As a former abused man/boy, I stand up for the rights of others. You have no right to mistreat others regardless of your anatomy "down there".

but honestly, please kill yourself. you truly don't deserve to live. you may be wondering if you're a bad person, but that's because you ARE. I know you may be feeling down right now. you deserve to feel this way. you don't deserve to be alive. right now, all I can hope for is that this was just a joke, and that the isn't really someone in this world that is a ******* stupid as you. so please, if you see this, comment that it's a joke. if not, like i said earlier, please kill yourself, and do us all a favor.

***** you deserve what you got. you ASSAULTED your (thankfully) ex boyfriend, and he acted in pure self defense. you are a terrible, useless ***** of a girl, who dosn't deserve what you got. you should have had the **** kicked out of you. he should have beat you to a pulp. i hope that some day soon, you kill yourself, and ride the world of useless pieces of **** like you

and once again, please, PLEASE kill yourself. I can assure you that killing yourself would bring your ex peace, and that killing yourself would stop you from taking food, water and air away from the rest of us. you truly are, in all sense of the world, and waste of space and a useless human being. I hope that one day, you do the right thing and kill yourself

If you were going to beat her up, would you prefer her to be standing with her arms held behind her back or tied above her head. You can only punch her in her breasts, belly and crotch.

**** that I'm glad your bf did that to you. Trying to make yourself look like the victim is just pathetic on your part. You make it seem like nothings wrong cheating and I don't blame your boyfriend for doing all that. I wouldve done the same. He did the right thing and deserves way better than a cheating **** like you. Perhaps you'll never learn dear child

LOL haha! hate to say it but you kinda got what you deserved


Being drunk is not a good excuse to cheat especially if you love him with all your heart as you claim. He didn't have a right to hit you but him telling everyone what happened is because he is hurt.

you are an idiot. u deserve to be shot

Would you shoot her in her heart for a quick death or put three bullets in her belly and let her bleed out?

You deserve it you heartless b!tch.

You deserve that *****. I caught my girlfriend cheating, I punched her in our teeth, swift roundhouse kick broke her leg, the next day I called up her job and got her fired. I told her work she was on drugs. You ****** out there that cheat, if you cheat on me I will kill you. That ***** has no job no she is on drugs, Thanks to my revenge, She is in the gutter and homeless. I really ****** up her life for cheating. My advice to you cheating women, don't do it because I will kill you or somebody else will.

Good luck on that once you break that trust its done if you love him let him go so he can be with someone he can trust it will never be the same between you two. And you should move on to and learn from this never to do that again.

Haha dumb ***** you got what was coming too you... What did you think? You were Gona **** some guy ur bf hated in his house in his bed n talk **** to him after? I would've knocked you the **** out cold then took pics of you naked n put EM up on Facebook google then would've told everybody you have AIDs n herpies damn I hope the worst for you for the rest of your stupid slutty life

I was cheating on my BF with another guy I met at the gym. We sneaked around for about 2 months before my BF caught on. We were out drinking and returned home. I ******** to my panties ready for bed. He starts quizzing me. I lie and deny but he keeps asking. He wants me to admit it. My arms are grabbed, tied together then hooked high above my head. Let me go, I demand. Are you seeing someone, he asked? No, I yell. He gets right in front of me and I see drunken anger. 9 times he slams his fist into my stretched belly leaving me breathless and panting. My full weight is hanging on my wrists and they ache. Now he shows me a photo on his phone of me and my new friend kissing. I'm untied and he leaves. I lost my BF and the other guy broke up with me 2 weeks later. Now I'm alone and looking for another BF.

you are an idiot. u deserve to be shot

Why am I an idiot? It was an attraction. I couldn't help myself. What part of my body would you shoot me? My belly so I die slow. Tied spread eagle then shot between my legs? Would I be tied to a tree, have my wrists tied above my head or would you let me run then hunt me down?

wat if ur boyfriend done to u .

This has got to be a joke to make us angry.. If it is, well done, you have made a bunch of people angry. If it's true, you don't deserve a boyfriend.. You sound like a horrible person and You dont deserve the pity that you crave.

Wow.... Seriously. Stop with pitty party. Your decisions and morals are clearly ****** up. Don't blame being drunk.... I'd kick your *** you.

Wow you really got what you deserved. You assaulted him. you should be in jail right now with your boy toy

Wait, u cheated in his house, on his bed, got him beat up by your ******, called him names and made fun of him and hut him as well. you deserve to be in hell right now and some freak accident should get you there fast as you truly are the scum of this earth.

Screw that for 1 you both were drunk maybe he went a little overboard but he did warn you and you were ******* a guy in HIS bed in HIS house and just cause your a girl and hes a guy does NOT make it ok to his or spit on him

That old social stigma is so old. Men cannot hit woman, BLASPHEMY! I have a few female friends who could kick the **** almost anyone I know and vice-versa. Nothing more than traditional bs akin to saying it rains because angels are sad. As for the cheating bit, I am quite surprised to are no paralyzed or something. I duggest you avoid alcohol. Under the influence you become a person even Hitler would be scared or, or proud of, neither positive.

you love him with all your heart? you got a funny way of showing it, I wouldn't hit you but I would definitely tell you to kick rocks and that you weren't worth my time because well you wouldn't be. you sound like a awful human being and a **** poor excuse for a girlfriend or even just a friend that's not a judgement just a observation based on your story which I half think is made up cause I've never met anyone as pathetic as you sound and have a hard time believing anyone could be that worthless

Hahaha! You ******* little ***** *****. You got what you deserved.

You did nothing wrong fun going and have some fun his is only a boyfriend not a husband you did not need to be hit for have fun. No girl should be hit by any guy or boyfriend. That really suck when i here about a girl getting slap by a boyfriend for have fun.

But its ok she hit him spit in his face kneed him in the balls and ****** another guy in HIS bed?

Are you mental? You must be.