I am not cheating. I used to cheat, but I don't now. I never was a cheater and the only time I did it before I was hurt was because I was curious. After my first fiance left me, I did it to get even with the world (dispite the fact that those guys didn't deserve it). When I met my current fiance, everything changed. Even though we have bent the rules a little for each other, I have never broken them and I hope he hasn't either.