Not Me

I just clicked on the not me...

My spouse sure isn't being faithful (by rejecting and neglecting me sexually) so she doesn't deserve faithfulness from me.

I would be faithful (a one woman man), but she is not interested so what's the point.
JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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not going to said anything that may hurt you or her ! you need to sit down and talk this out between the both of you see where thing are going maybe you can work this out or may you get a divorce and get on with your life and she need to do the same,

I was for many, many years-24 to be exact-then my eyes were opened (widely I might add!) and I felt guilt initially but not anymore-that was 5 years ago-I also felt like a desireable woman for the very first time in my life--at 45 mind you! Now life is day to day with DH but I'm loving my life on my own....absolutely LOVING IT!!! I was rejected for years-broke my spirit for a while-raised the family-now I'm enjoying and growing myself!

Exactly CS.

That's my sentiment too - that my wife essentially broke the marriage by putting me out of the marital bedroom and cutting off sex and emotional support. Spending the paycheck was ok though.

But when she busted me having an affair - it was ONLY my fault.