Dreams of Sharing My Wife

I  keep having a dream about sharing my wife with another man. I dream I am in a room watching her have sex with another man and in the dream I find it exciting to watch her engaging in all types of sexual acts. The male in the dream is no one either of us know just phantom male giving her pleasure. We have a great relationship and have been married for over 10 years now and are not swingers.

About 4 years ago I lost a job of over 12 years and had to go on anti-depressents. The medication in turn has put my sex drive in low gear however and takes some doing to get cranked up. Due to this our sex life has taken a hit. I feel bad about this and I have entertained the thought of her taking another lover. I brought this up one time and she said that is was something she could never do even though I would condone it under the circumstances. She is a middle aged woman now and at her sexual prime and I know she has cravings and needs and hate to see her go unsatisfied sexually.

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks folks

boeingflight boeingflight
41-45, M
1 Response May 8, 2007

It's a nice gesture, but I'm not so sure you'd like it if she took you up on that offer.