My Wife

I only crossdress in front of one female, and that is my wife.

Even though I know I could freely crossdress in front of my wife anytime I desire, I only do it a few times a week.

I do wear panties 24/7 and the wife knows it.

I do wear nightgowns about every other night to bed.

On Sunday's I do dress in a bra, breast forms, panties, thigh high stockings, nightgown and my long red nylon robe all day long.

Even though my wife knows all about me and she supports me fully, she wishes I would not crossdress. Because of this, I compromise and only dress about 1/2 the time. My marriage is more important to me than wearing what relaxes me.
happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy
51-55, M
3 Responses Jan 22, 2013

So what was her initial reaction when she first learned of your dressing?? How long have you been married?

I told her with a week of meeting her. We didn't talk for a few days after the conversation. She wasn't repulsed by it, but she wasn't thrilled with it either. We have been together for 11 1/2 years and married for 9 1/2 years.

Wow! That's amazing! I am trying tinpot together the words to tell my wife... Any words of encouragement?

Might drop some hints to see her opinion on crossdressers. Find a quiet private place with NO distractions. Be honest! Be prepared for all the questions...gay, sex change, ect... Find some website with helpful information that she can look at from another s/o point of view not just another crossdresser. Be understanding. Be willing to compromise if needed.

Yeah it seems I am on the right track, your advice is pretty much what I was thinking...

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Very nice. It is awesome to see how you and her have both come to terms with your dressing in a way that works for both of you.

Compromise is a necessity in a successful marriage.

I totally get that. I am in a similar situation, but don't dress as often as you in front of my wife. Maybe once or twice a month. I do wear panties 24/7, and love that. Wish you well, and I absolutely respect your monogamous relationship with your one and only!

For a long time I felt uncomfortable dressing in front of my wife, now it just seems normal to me. Before I would only wear my nightgowns to bed, I would change just before I crawled into bed and then I would cover myself so my wife could not see what I was wearing, although most of the time she knew which nights I was dressed and which nights I wasn't.