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Silky Gowns, Slips, Panties And Pjs

It is with some trepidation that I join this group. I am a crossdresser in the sense that I like to wear silky nightgowns, slips, panties and PJs. I do not otherwise want to dress as a woman and do not want to be a woman. My fantasies are all about wearing something silky, preferably a long nightgown, with a woman who is also wearing something silky and thinks it is sexy and fun. I have had some success in the past along those lines, but not lately. I am not really sure where it all came from. The only childhood experience I remember is of  being about 8, playing in the closet with my mom's silky gown and thinking it felt very nice. I first put on a gown when my first wife noticed how much I enjoyed feeling her body through her silky gown and asked me if I would like to wear it. I said yes, and we had some nice silky fun fairly often after that. My 2nd wife kind of got into it as well (technically we are still married but do not live together). Read my story "The Neighbor" for my fantasy. It's not a true story, but I wish it were.

For a long time (after I was no longer married) I used my silky things for sexual gratification and nothing else; that is to say I *********** with them and into them. Only recently have I started wearing panties (nylon full-cut briefs) most of the time, and wearing my gowns and PJs at home (I live alone). I have been wearing my short Vanity Fair gowns to bed with panties, and I now wake up almost every morning with a very nice erection. I am looking forward to winter when my long gowns and PJs will be more comfortable to sleep in.

Please do not imagine that I am some kind of repressed gay guy. I don't want to suck any **** or have anal sex with a man or wear a diaper or pee on anybody or do any of the other truly weird things that are out there. OK, I should rephrase that. Oral and anal are fine with me between any two consenting adults (I have had and do have gay friends and colleagues), so I will leave that out of the weird stuff. It's just that I want the other consenting adult to be female. I like having sex with women, also oral, both giving and receiving. I have been told that I am quite good at the giving part.

I am at the moment wearing a short Vanity Fair nightgown in a lovely aqua color, with matching VF panties. Over them I am wearing a short VF robe in a fairly bright pink color that looks very nice with the color of the gown. It is all very silky and feels very nice indeed.
gown1000 gown1000 66-70, M 3 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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To have your entire body enveloped in all that silky fabric is something I would think every man would enjoy. I think what stops most men from enjoying it is the mental block of thinking they must be gay if they like it. The world doesn't have to know what you enjoy lounging in or wear to bed. You can still be all man while enjoying the softer more feminine clothing. After all it is just clothing. It won't make you gay or bi, your **** won't fall off, and I don't think it will create a desire for a sex change.

I buy large sizes - 1x or evern larger - because I like the loose feel. The more silky material the better. I wish they were longer though. I'd like for them to tickle my toes. The main reason I love my long silky PJs is that they reach he floor. You are right about sleeves - never long enough.

It's so good to welcome you into the brotherhood, gown1000. Since most crossdressers want to consider themselves female when they dress, or even all the time, or as part of the actual transition process to permanent womanhood, those of us who just like the clothes are an anomaly even in the crossdresser community. We need to hang together, bro!<br />
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Do you have trouble finding nightgowns that fit? For me the biggest problem is sleeves. I like a long sleeve that covers my arms all the way down to the ends of my wrists, but most "long sleeve" nightgowns have cuffs that end halfway between my elbows and my wrists. Every time I stretch my arms those short cuffs ride up and tighten around my arms, cutting off circulation.<br />
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Length is also a problem; a nightgown that comes to ankle length on the catalog model falls just below my knees. I mean, I'm not especially tall (5'9") but I guess the models are even shorter.<br />
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Mmmmmm, all your talk about those sikly gowns puts me in the mood to slip into one of mine and head off to bed now.

Where and when it all started is cause for a different post. For now, I have been wearing nightgowns to bed with my wife for 16 years now! I wear Vanity Fair Pajamas and matching robes on occasion. Most of the time however I am in either a waltz length nightgown or full length. with a matching nylon robe, caftan or an extra full plain nightgown over. On weekends in particular we can be found in our nightgowns, doing things around the house, sitting out back enjoying coffee in the morning or a drink at night. She has in the past bought nightgowns for me. Now I buy them for both of us. She is a small, I am a medium which means I could wear hers too. Both of us have found that Miss. Elaine Silk Essence is the most luxurious gown we could wear so both her closet and mine contain more than a dozen of these alone. We both wear long gowns during the winter short ones during the summer. We both wear size 5 panties however, she prefers beige and pink while I wear black, beige green full cut Vanity Fair with just a touch of lace. Recently I found and a few waltz length nightgowns with pastel flowers which she was ecstatic over first time she saw them. There is a touch of lace on some of my gowns, most have a little flower or bow on the left side with cap sleeves. It is our life, behind our doors, it is what we do without guilt or strange feelings. I admit a new nightgown can give me twinges however my wife gets me erect!!!

Your thoughts are disturbing. I am a manly man who wears skirts or dresses while considering myself to be a testosterone-filled male who is extremely happy to be permanently MALE. Clothes do not change anyone's gender or the perception thereof. None of my clothes have genitalia. We have found that sleeping totally nude is the only comfortable way to spend the evening in bed with your spouse.

There are half a dozen responses above, n0heq. Which one(s) disturbed you, and why?

For what it's worth, I totally agree. Perhaps I didn't make it clear in my reply from two years ago, but I absolutely do not present as a woman -- hence my masculine name and heavy beard. I happen to find the softer fabrics and fit of skirts, dresses, and nightgowns to be more comfortable, but I never once imagined, or wanted, it would change the perception of my gender.

That said, what floats other folks' boats isn't really any of my concern.