Condoms And CuckoldsBecause of a recent news story about a **** actor in California testing for AIDS and the partial industry shutdown until more info is obtained, my wife and I had a discussion about Condoms Vs Bareback. About 10 years ago my wife took a lover and made me her cuckold and, because her lover is the husband of a very good friend of ours and the fact that we believe that he is not having unsafe sex, my wife decided she would like him to ********* inside her vagina without a condom because of the feeling and that she could then feed me his ***. My wife has engaged in unprotected sex with this male exclusively and we have felt safe from STD's and AIDS and we have had personal testing done only twice in the 10 years just "because". We both are very aware that the use of condoms is almost completely absent in **** and we know that the idea of unprotected, bareback sex is much more erotic when you watch a **** film or read an adult story. I guess that the pause while the male goes to get the condom, opens and puts it on, and then continues on with intercourse is a downer. And with a condom, the sight of a males *** leaking from a woman's vagina providing proof that he ********** in her would not occur. In addition, carrying the lover's ***** back to the cuckold is much more erotic when held inside the woman instead of in a cold condom.
Well, my wife actually said we should have a discussion of the lack of use of condoms with her lover who also does not like to wear a 'glove'. In addition, her bringing me back a 'gift' from her lover and feeding me his warm *** directly from her ***** when she returns would have to be adjusted. My wife asked me if I had read the article and I told her I had. She asked me if I was still comfortable trusting that her lover would refrain from unsafe sex with any partner outside of his wife and mine and I told her that I did feel her lover would abide by those rules. I asked her if she had and second thought about him not using a condom when they had sex and she told me that she trusted him and the feeling of his large penis sliding into her vagina would just not feel the same with a condom.
So we had our discussion and ended it with deciding to continue to have her lover directly inject his ***** into my wife. That act, the placing of his ***** in my wife really drives the fact home that he has the unrestricted use of her vagina while I don't and that has a significant impact on my submissive side. It is both humiliating as well as erotic to know that is what he does to her and she loves the sex and has for 10 years and wants to continue with him for many more. Her lover and his wife and me and my wife continue to remain close friends, with the extra issue that he takes my wife to bed and injects his fluid directly deep inside my wife.
We had to have this discussion because, although the news headlines concerning AIDS is not a usual story, we still live in a time where a very serious health issue is directly connected with one of life's pleasures. I just thought I would share this story and how we dealt with the news and where we came out.