Children's AcknowledgeTraditionally people will hide and sneak around their kids, we think that is the wrong way to do it. We have taken a completely different approach and it has been working wonderfully for us.
We have a daughter 15 years old, and two boys 17 and 11 years old. My wife has a regular lover now (Eric) for over 6 years, and along with other regular lovers (Shane) and (Rod) for the past 3 and 4 years respectively. She sees Eric on average about twice per week, sometimes more, and Shane and Rod on average about twice per month each. All three men are much better endowed than I am and my penis has been retired and locked with the occasional reminders on important dates.
We decided a long time ago to not have the secrective lifestyle that usually comes along with cuckolding. Whilte we do not broadcast it to the entire world, we prefer to have our closest friends and family know about our lifestyle. We are very blunt: if you love us and see that we are happy then you will be happy for us. If you don’t then that is your choice. For the most part our closest friends and family have come to accept it and somewhat support us. It has always been my responsibility to explain our lifestyle to the people that we choose. I have to admit that those conversations are often diffucult for me, as the questions arise “why”, to which my wife prefers that I answer “because it turns us both on and because they can safisty her in ways that I cannnot”.
Since young, we have been very carefuyl to raise our kids with the understanding and acceptance that Mommy has “very special friends”. They know that we are extremely happy, I think once they see how happy we are then they are also well adjusted, confident and comfortable. That is very important to us.
Eric visits our home. Has dinner with us (taking the seat at the head of the table) or takes my wife out on their date. Shane and Rod do the same, however not as often. They do not act lewd or sexual around our kids, it is just a nice relaxing time. They know that Mommy is dressing special for her “very speical friends”, in clothes only reserverd for Eric, Shane and Rod and they are fine with that. Eric openly kisses and hugs my wife in our presence and again our kids are well adusted to it. We have a “Mommy first” attitude in our home that works very well.
I know this is not the ideal answer for everyone, but for us it works very well. With careful guidance and understanding then I think it is possible for this to work well in a family situation and for the kids to adjust well to it, like ours have. I do think that is should be the husbands duty to explaint things to any family or friends.
eroticflower 41-45, F 15 Responses 22 Feb 22, 2012