Advice To The BullsI saw the word "wittol" used in an on-line story or news article
recently. The context in which it was used left little doubt as to its
intended meaning but I checked my desk top dictionary anyway. Pulling a
blank with a Webster's wanna be, I Googled it. What an education!
First off, I discovered it names my affliction of many years. Been
there, done that. Didn't know it had a name. It also nails down a common
pastime of a large number of very happy people in our world. Defined, it
loosely means husbands who enjoy letting other men **** their wives.
It seems that the word "cuckold", an old and well used term, has several
facets. Some nice, some not so much. Some forms are delightful, some
The four kinds of cuckolds are: (1) Husbands of wives that have lovers
but know nothing of her actions. (2) Husbands who find out their wives
have lovers and hit the ceiling. (3) Husbands who tolerate their wives
dalliances for some reason but don't like it at all. (4) Husbands who
like, even promote, their wives being with other men sexually.
In the first type, as long as the conditions are stable, i.e., hubby
never finds out, all is well and good. This type may continue for all of
their married lives and never cause any problem. A sort of "Ignorance is
Bliss" or "What you don't know, can't hurt you" situation. I suspect this
type is way more common than any statistic on successful marriages will
ever reveal. Unfortunately, type (1) often suddenly becomes type (2) or
(3) with unhappy results.
The second type is the dangerous one. For the wife and/or her lover,
and anyone else within range. This cuckold type is not likely to have a
happy ending for either of the participants, the willing or the deceived.
Jealous rage by a wronged husband is not justification for mayhem in any
modern court of law. Divorce, alimony, child support and long prison
terms, are all just minor implications associated with this cuckold type.
I find the third type to be the saddest of all. The long suffering wimp
that knows what his wife, and the mother of his kids, is doing in her spare
time and just barely tolerates it. He doesn't like it, it offends his
manhood, he is humiliated in several ways, but he sticks with her. Their
wedding vows may not mean much to her but they do to him. It may be the
kids, it may be the mortgage, it may be his place in his social circle.
Regardless of reason, he watches her go out at night and takes her back
when she returns. The poor bastard may eventually either drink himself to
death or stick the shotgun in his mouth.
Then we come to the fourth type, the wittol. Here's the guy that likes,
no loves, that his wife is open and forthright enough in her sexuality to
indulge herself with other men. This is the guy that encourages his bride
to seek out other men or at least to eagerly accept the ones he brings to
her. A wittol is exactly the sort of husband that any self respecting man
on the prowl for ***** should be searching out and cultivating.
Let's call him a Bull. It's a well deserved moniker for the kind of guy
that most couples find most desirable when opening up the master bedroom
door to include another man. He's reasonably polished. He's physically
clean and capable. He's equipped and competent in the bedroom. And he's
respectful of the marriage bond between the couple. You can call him a
stud, a pla
a very important part of your lives forever, if only in fond memories.
Any way you cut it, the Bull and the wittol are a team. One compliments
the other. Any Bull that goes into a cuckold (1), (2) or (3) scenario has
to watch his back. His welfare, perhaps his very survival, is always
hanging out there. One slip-up and the wet rumpled sheets could turn into
a chalk outline on a bedroom floor. But if he teams up with a wittol, he's
home free. Not only is most of his prep work done, the girl of his dreams
comes gift wrapped. She has a place to stay, paid for. She has a car,
paid for. She has a built in baby sitter if necessary. This lucky Bull
doesn't have to worry about alibis, hidden emails, or leaving hickeys in
Every Bull worth his salt should seek out and foster wittols. They are
his gateway to paradise. They will cover his back and his tracks, and pick
up the tab. All he has to do is treat their wives right. Take care of
them in the sack, let him watch once in a while, and maybe take a picture
or two to jerk off to later. He doesn't have to abuse the wittol if he
doesn't want it. He should respect him, buy him a birthday gift, laugh at
his jokes, appreciate what the wittol is giving him . He's the guy that's
setting the Bull up with some mighty fine *****. The wittol is the guy
that meets you at the door and hangs up your coat while his wife is
unzipping your pants.
So here we are. The wittol gets what he wants. The Bull gets what he
wants. And the wife, the center of our attention, gets twice what she
wants. She gets an adoring husband and provider and she also gets the
excitement of an outside love interest without any complication or
subterfuge. She probably won't tell her mother that she has found the
secret to wedded bliss but I wouldn't bet that she doesn't tell her
daughters. Secrets like this are too good to keep.
A few URLs for those that want to delve deeper into this
concept/lifestyle. I highly recommend it after over thirty years of
indulgence. You will never regret it. I guarantee, your wife will love
you for it forever.
cuckoldmarriage.info has a lot of good advice on how to relate in to one another in the various phases of the Bull/cuck/hotwife relationship.
http://www.ourhotwives.org is another valuable resource for couples considering the lifestyle. They have good, informative forums. There's a friendly chat room. Real wives can be verified and have their own forum there, too.