The TalkMy wife came home from work and we finally got to talk. she answered all my questions and told me what she expected out of her new decision to be monogamous to her boyfriend.
Basically she said she isnt leaving me and she isnt moving out but she is taking some of her things over to Jamie's house and she would probably be staying there about as much as she stayed at home. She also defined what she ment by monogamy. She said i wasnt to kiss, flirt have sex with or touch her. She didnt want me to see her naked and told me i needed to move into the guest bedroom because she wouldnt sleep with me anymore. She said that it was her room now and told me not to go in there without her permission. She wanted it to be like we were room mates.
we also talked about other things, We had a lot to catch up on since she had been gone almost 2 weeks. She told me about her trip and some of the things they did while they were there. She told me about how great Jamie was and how happy she was with him. She wouldnt tell me anything sexual, she said that was private. She also asked about Gary and was extremely disappointed when she found out nothing happened and then she immediately called to set up another group date. I told her i didnt want to go and that it was awkward for me. She told me that if i didnt go she would move in with jamie and i wouldnt see her again until i decided i wanted to be a part of her life. She said that since we wernt lovers anymore the only way i could be around was by being her gay bff. "besides" she said"it didnt look like you were too awakard when you were on your knees sucking his ****". She made the calls and set up a date for later in the week.
Our conversation died after that and we got ready for bed. She helped me move my things out of her room and into mine and then we went to sleep. It could have been from my sexual frustration but for whatever reason i went to bed in a pretty good mood and excited to see what the future held