Cuckolding 101The word cuckold means “the husband of an unfaithful wife”. Broader implications in “our” world mean something different and so much more. Unfaithful? Yes. But that seems to imply cheating behind his back. While this does occur, I can not condone it. I believe that what makes cuckolding special is the very fact that the husband does know, does approve (or not) and often is either willing or ordered to assist his wife in her dating other men. While she is not faithful to him in the biblical sense, she is in that he is fully aware of it and either approves or tolerates it, or he would obviously divorce her and go on his way. Within the cuckold world you have those that range in activity from the very rare dalliance with no husband participation, to those where the husband helps to arrange the frequent dates, helps her prepare for her date and assists in every aspect before, during and after. I would fall somewhere in between. First off no one can avoid the unpleasant but very important topic of STDs. Everyone must go to great lengths to protect themselves and their partners. I have found the best way is to take one very carefully screened lover at a time. A guy who is intelligent enough to be able to recognize the pros of being in a relationship where his only responsibility is to make love to another mans wife. No child support, no spouse support, no nagging wife, no screaming kids, no pressure to get married. He comes, he ****, he goes. For many men this is the ultimate arrangement for them and the wise ones take great care to maintain it.
It’s no great secret that the male species likes to have sex. The man that provides this, commonly known as the “bull” as in a reproducing stud, has a simple job. To have sex with the wife. The cuckolded husband, commonly known as a “wimp” has an enormous job before him. He may be responsible for setting dates, helping his wife bathe, dress and prepare for her date. He may be required to serve food or drinks to the couple. He may be required to watch them having sex, he may be required to participate. For many cuckold couples the defining moment may be after the bull has ********** inside the wife. The common term for this is a “********”. It is a signal of power for the bull, he has just come inside another mans wife. It is a great sign of humiliation for the husband, another man just had sex with his wife and the evidence is leaking out of her. It is a pleasurable moment for the wife, she has just been royally and properly ****** and in front of her husband. Quite often at this point the husband is either ordered, or expected to eat his wife’s ********. For her, the oral stimulation’s of her post coital activities can be very pleasing and may allow her to achieve additional *******. For the husband the truth of the moment, the overwhelming blatant reality of having to lick and suck another mans come out of his freshly ****** wife can be both repulsive and humiliating and extremely erotic at the same time. Many submissive husbands view this as the ultimate in proving submission and devotion to his wife. It also is perhaps the single most horrific thing a straight heterosexual man can be ordered to do. A very odd love/hate dynamic can develop within the husbands mind. He is degraded and disgusted with what he does for his wife, and strangely aroused by it and eagerly awaits the next time he is ordered or allowed to repeat the performance.
One aspect of cuckolding that seems to have been blown out of proportion on the Internet is the issue of penis size. According to the common opinions, all bulls have a huge 12 inch penis, and all wimps have a thin 4 inch penis. I can say this is very far from true. Some would want to go into the “mean” versus the average, and take into account millions of other pieces of information, genetics, body mass index, level of arousal, age etc, but in my mind the question has been answered. In truth, none of this matters as the average cuckolding wife wants something considerably larger than the average. And by “larger” I don’t mean just penis size, but technique and skill. At the same time, not all wimps have 4 inches, nor do all bulls have 10. In some cases the wimp might actually have a penis of equal or even greater proportion than that of the bull. The basic instinct of a person determines more what role they would prefer to play or are destined to be in than penis size alone. Having erectile dis-function, being a premature ejaculator, having bad technique, or just being of an overwhelming submissive nature could compel a man to be in the wimp role. The opposite, a very dominant guy with great confidence and stamina could fulfill the role of bull with just an average size penis. The mental and emotional aspects of this outweigh the physical attributes but most people tend to focus on the physical alone as being the reason.
Good luck and happy cuckolding!