Can Someone Explain

I am curious about same sex relationships....why is it that people choose to be with someone of the same sex to get away from the opposite and then turn around and one of them acts like what they are getting away from....i.e....of the lesbians i have encountered one is always "butch" and acts more male then most guys.....and with gay men one always acts more feminine then most women?
SingleDad40 SingleDad40 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 19, 2012

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I too have always found this puzzling, although in my experience it is not always the case, it occurs often enough to make me wonder.