Makes Bad Decisions Ii

Can't believe I'm still here. In this marriage. Living this life. Putting up with crap from someone.

Hubby didn't come home last night...again. When he came crawling in at 7 am refused to talk to me, told me he'd slept at a buddy's house and said he needed sleep.

So I looked at his text messages. And there, at 6:30 this morning, was a message from him to his buddy asking him to pick him up and giving him an address. Hmmm.

Gentle readers, you know I'm not a welcome mat. I don't just let things like this sit. I woke him up, asked him where he was all night. He gave me the same effed up story. I called BS and told him I would call his buddy and check. He told me to call him, I said, "Ok, his number's on your phone, right?" He said, "No, don't think I have his number." So I reminded him that the guy had called him right before they left together and his phone keeps a call history so I can easily look it up that way....He just froze.

And confessed.

Picked up a drunk chick in a bar and took her home. Told me it was my fault for 5 different reasons, each of which I countered. Told me it's not really cheating...just swinging alone. Really called BS then. Told him he can justify it however he wants, but he deliberately cheated and LIED.

I can honestly tell you I am angrier about the lies. He could have texted me. Could have called . . .Told me he wasn't coming home, that he was taking some chick home, whatever. I'm a grown up and YOU know I'm not perfect... It would have hurt but I would have lived. And I would have known.

What a mess.
sassyg1rl sassyg1rl
46-50, F
2 Responses Jul 9, 2010

No longer with him. Getting divorced.

That is a mess. Why are you still with him?