I Hate My Husband

Yes the title fits....... I have been married for almost 25 years to a selfish, lazy creature that I don't even know if he can be catorgorized as "man". We live in a sexless marriage as I cannot even stand to look at him. We have four great kids-23,20,17, and 15, and that is the only reason we are still together. He is off 14 days a month, and when we hit some financial difficulties, I went to get a second job and worked extra...it was beneath him. Like I said above, most days I cannot even stand to look at him. I have just accepted a new job with a huge pay raise and am biding my time now....... It is pretty disconcerting that so many of us have fallen into this path. I thought I had picked a good one, but did not. It is comforting to know that I'm not alone though. best wishes for a good 2009 for all of you and me.

plumeria plumeria
1 Response Jan 1, 2009

You have money and a good head on you shoulders. Start living life. I can't wait to start living mine. My husband informed me he wanted a divorce a week ago. We work together. when he quits his job,my job ends also. He doesn't care. I know I will get it together. Let's see if the next women will put up with half of what I put up with. Good luck to him on that one!