At This Point I'm Considered "Older"

I have always been attracted to men older than me. My current boyfriend is 7 years older, I am 46. When I was not quite 17 I dated a 26 years old, he was my school bus driver. There was no sex involved so stop thinking it was something freaky.

I think I have always been more mature and maybe wiser than my age would have you think. It has only been in recent years that I thought I might consider dating someone a bit younger, but I wasn't looking for someone younger. In fact I'm just naturally drawn to the older, more mature male in the group.

WittyOne WittyOne
46-50, F
4 Responses Sep 1, 2007

I've always preferred older men too. My last was 12 years older than myself. Unfortunately if I continue with this sort of arrangement, my next will be dead.

I've always liked older men. I'm 20 turning 21 on October. My boyfriend is 28 and we're getting married in 6 months :)

I'm 57, and sorry but most of the men my age just do not have my energy level, I have been on a dating site and Lordy, Lordy...I'm scared! But with perserverance I will maneuver through the cript keepers...and find my special someone.... she prays

Well it's no secret that women mature far sooner than men, which makes looking for partners a challenge. Women must find men who have arrived at that magical point - old enough to actually have some depth of character - yet young enough to speak intelligibly and not get lost in the mall. It's a narrow window.