Trying To Divorce A Socipath For Two Years / He Refuses To Let Me Go!
Meet him on match.com after being widowed for a bit over a year. Married him 21 months later, filed for divorce after 9 months. He sucked me back in and I filed for good June 2010. Have been trying to get divorced form a 28 month marriage for 22 moths now. He understands that if he can not be served then he can not be charged with failure to appear or contempt of court. He is also a narcisist, and thinks the rules do not apply to him and that he will never loose. I was granted a life time order of protection. He stalked me for 20 months before he was charged. He got 18 months probation in the state of FL. The courts there suck!! The police there suck. There are to many drug problems in that state, so they do not have time for stalkers or divorce. His plan was to gain my trust then suck my dry. He even committed mortage forclosure with another woman using my name. Four years later the state of FL still has not been able to serve him. His probation is another huge joke! I have had him arrested four times and he has got himself arrested one time. Some how he still thinks he can get me back,and is still weraing his wedding ring! I know now that he targeted me and he just used me for sex and finincial gain. He has a drinking problem and when I left he went on a 9 month drinking bindge(spent $40,000.) and I had him sent to a menatl hospitol. This was an attempt to make me feel guilty and sorry. Did not work! He refuses to loose!! He don't want me he wants me to support him and most of all he wants to win. Any one been in a situation like this? How can I get divorced and how afraid of him should I be? The only thing that matters to him is money and sex. I have cost him about $125,000. and he lost his car while in jail, I have his house and collect the rent and I know this ****** him off. How afraid do you think I should be?