My Definition Of Love
For me, love isn't about buying someone flowers or any of those superficial attributes. One solid way to show you love someone is to do something for them that is difficult for you. Like, say, you have trouble being on time or remembering things and that bothers your partner, so you make a special effort to be on time for them or remember things they've asked you to do. You can be sure they'll appreciate it. Sure, you can show you love them by doing what comes easy, too, but what they'll really remember is the times you went the extra mile and challenged their preconceptions about what you're capable of doing. That's love for me.