Positives From Joining Negatives

A mathematical equations that adds two negatives becomes a positive answer...I handle the abuse i have had happen in this way....the two negatives are the act itself and the way it makes me feel.....i turned it positive by being able to have helped others deal with abuse, I stand up for people who are abused, i have learned strategies to identify abuse and avoid situations with that potential ...


I also identify with the people who abuse others as possible victims of abuse themselves....i am able to forgive those who have abused me and i have forgiven....HATE breeds abuse



i despise abuse in any form.......there is a cycle of abuse that turns the abused into abusers,,,the bullied into bullies......i seek to break that cycle at every step, every corner and every avenue i take.....i am a child of god despite the fact i was born of rape, sexually assaulted in childhood and other key periods of my life due to circumstances i could not control and those I could I was not mature enough to see the damage i was doing to myself......i despise abuse so the cycle stops here I am a survivor of abuse......that is my positive.....


i have lived through it as have many...i am no different.......If i can help one person who suffers with abuse or has been abused..........my life has depth and meaning...if one person can smile through sadness through something i have written or said......then all my sadness has purpose and strength.....We are all survivors, every ounce of pain has gain, we might not see rhyme or reason or purpose or merit today........but someday all will be clear.....I believe god gives strength to those who are abused firstly to deal with abuse and then to help others find their way......my path is brighter and more positive for simply that reason.....thanks for reading.....D
todreaminblue todreaminblue
41-45, F
Nov 28, 2012