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Compromising myself to fit into relationships.

Conforming to the standards of others to keep them happy.

Giving myself away, piece by piece, because that's what's expected of someone now.

Discontinuing the habit of caring about others.

I will never be selfish, I will always be compassionate, and frankly, I don't have the energy to change myself in any way at this point. If you don't like me, that's pretty much YOUR problem because I know I'm great.
bellacaduta bellacaduta 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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Trying to be the best person you can be should be everyone's goal. Treat others as you wish to be treated. It is good to not be selfish but yet make time for yourself. There's a difference. You do need some quiet time just for you even if it is just an hour a day. You sound like you're on the right track with your self esteem. As long as good values are in place everything will work out :)