It's strange how families work. My grandma was good to me most of the time and horrible to her own children(HORRIBLE), family regrets tend to turn parents into great Grandparents sometimes, but only if they realize and/or admit it. People make horrible mistakes, sometimes they learn from them and sometimes they don't. Both my parents had parents who made PLENTY and it's not a surprise to me that there children have trying to not make the same ended up making there own and/or worse horrible mistakes. Which of course I make my own which in reality thats how it works, I just hope my son will understand and know I always love him.