But I Waited Til I Found The One I Love ...

I didn't wait until marriage. But I waited until I found the one I loved. I lost my virginity when I was 20. Even though I had dated many guys before I met him, I have never had sex with them since I wasn't sure if they were the right one for me. Surprisingly, when I met my boyfriend, I didn't hesitate to belong to him at all. Of course, I was scared and excited. But I knew indeed that he's the right one. So, I did. And it hurt but it was wonderful. It's a great feeling to have lost your first time with someone you really loved. Now, we are married and I have proved that the perfect time for sex is when you can find out the one whom you really love not only just for fun or to be trendy.
DollyDiva DollyDiva
26-30, F
28 Responses Nov 4, 2009

Good story <3 good luck in your marriage :) ive lost my virginity 1 month ago im 20 and im in love with him so i dont regret it too

fairy tale.....

I consider myself lucky ,,<br />
Wish all best things for everyone ..<br />
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Hugs<br />

this is how we would all want in our life best to you both

Thank you :)<br />
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Yes, wondeful thoughts..when you found the one you love truly, but when the feelings are shared and mutual, then is beautiful =) happy for you

Thank you :)

DD is beautiful and intelligent. Her writings are always worth reading.

Just fact.


The guy is getting a truly wonderful lady.

Oh thank you for blessing :)

The most important part of your story is that you did what you wanted and it turned out to be good for you . May you have a bright future :)

Im happy if my experience could inspire others.<br />
If you r sure u r in love, go for it. ;)

@singer, thks a lot but at least you made decision by yourself. Thats one good thing. :)<br />
@phila, Thks so much, you're so sweet. :)<br />
@fungirl, thks a lot and happy birthday, wish you all happiness and luck :)<br />
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with love for you all,<br />

It is beautiful when you can find that special someone to connect to and love. I am happy for you dolly.

Singer, why would you beat yourself up over an abortion?<br />
It was YOUR body after all.


Awwwww...that is so sweet.....I wish that I had waited....I mean if I had....I would not have beaten myself up for over 20 years for the abortion that I had when I was 16

((((hugs)))) cjpsf5 ! <br />
its just a morning time here and today I feel so happy. <br />
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with love,<br />

Most welcome Dolly.

yeah that makes me feel so grateful thx :)

Glad that you found someone who you can connect to.......

yeah, thx again its so nice when sb could understand u as if we share the same exp, that's the point of this site :)

I understand what you feel.

Thank you for understanding. It means a lot to me :)

I understand that story

hehe thks :) <br />
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Maybe because Im Asian, but Im a new generation so I dont cling to the old conservative taboos anymore. I followed my heart and never regret what I've done ...