No Way

 Anyone who demands that I "obey" is losing a testicle. We are equals and should be treated as such, thank you very much.


Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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And if he demands again...make it two!

A plus for your attitude! And oh yes, I will obey my wife in the bedroom...or anywhere else. I like her to be the head of the house. Works for me very well.



The only time I will "obey" anyone is in the bedroom, during "play". Other than that....hell no.

Very true, CK ;)

In general, mutual respect is the most important thing, and the word "obey" is miles away from the concept of respect in my mind.


I couldn't agree more. Husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, lovers should always be treated as equals. However, I also believe that there is a place of dominance in the bedroom, as long as both participants are interested and enjoying it.

LOL, I don't have a husband, either :) But I totally agree that no adult should be "controlled" by anyone else. "Obeying" and being "controlled" is for dogs and small children.

God quote! One of my favorites is by Rebecca West: “I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is; I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute.”