I Spank My Kids

You should use the belt on both of them, she is most definitely old enough to take it.

I have two girls, nine and six. I use implements on both of them.

Spanking isn't bad I have twin almost 3 year olds and I give them little smacks but when they grow up they will be over me and my husbands knee!I was spanked my last time about 9 yrs ago I'm 25 and my husbands 26 so we have all our memories still there I have written loads of story's on my spankings if you think it's a good thing read them and tell me what u think!

I was caned by my father until 16 .but I don't know why he only cane my thigh and cane about 40 every time

Good job. You are teaching your children to become violent and sadistic. I totally applaud that, you ******* *******

you should do it even, both belts or both not.

I was always the rebellious type growing up so I got the belt used on my *** a lot. In fact, my old man never hestiated about getting that belt out. And now that I look back on it, I think it made me a better person.

i spank my three foster sons when they are naughty or disobey me.

I think this is good. I have a friend whose parents never cared enough to set rules for her or her brother. She has had issues with partying and her brother has had problems with the law. She is 20 now and trying to help her brother. I remember her telling me that she wished they would give her some rules. I feel light spankings, not beatings obviously, and rules show a kid that you love them.

Of course you are in your full right to spank both your children. If they missbehave or doesn't follow your rules, why shouldn't you? I always try to explain to my children that OUR home is not a democracy where the children can outvote me and my husband and decide to have icecream for dinner everyday. I make the rules, if they don't follow them there will be consequenses, just as there is in society. IMO you can go with the belt for both of your kids, they are big enough.

3512649nf . Lots of Parents are to Dum as you are saying NaughtyGirl . you no what is needed and you should tel your daddy he should smack your bare bottom hard not takeaway your Phone . Some Parents are stupid and dont Realize their youngsters are running riot . Disruptive youngsters need Disciplining even at Age 16 NaughtyGirl . davidmaher48@gmail.com

I'm 16. And my parents r to dum to realize that spanking Me is probaly the only thing that would work. If one of them takes my phone I just go and sneak it back. Lol. Plus I'm a girl so I don't think so.

The Punishment must hurt . Strict Parenting stops youngsters turning to Crime . their is to much Crime and its down to the Parents not being Strict . UnDisciplined youngsters make bad Adults . Without Discipline their is Chaos in homes and on the streets

Your daughter got of way too light, get your biggest leather belt and go right to her room. Say nothing as you pull down her pants and panties. Bend her over your lap and apply the belt, make sure she knows you mean business from the start.

Don't stop until she gives you long and tearfull "I'm Very Sorry Daddy".

This is an interesting thread and it is good to read so many advocated of what is a sensible, proper and effective way to punishing bad behavour and encouraging better conduct. if the rules and consequences are known and understood then the child has only him/herself to blame

This is an interesting thread and it is good to read so many advocated of what is a sensible, proper and effective way to punishing bad behavour and encouraging better conduct. if the rules and consequences are known and understood then the child has only him/herself to blame

I know this is your way of parenting but i am a mother of 4 and my second youngest is 4 and i would never smack him instead he would get a warning for misbehaving and then he would sit on the naughty step for four minutes. Then i would get him to apoligize for what he as done. My oldest is 8 and he would rebel on sitting on the naughty step as i find he is to old so instead i would take privliges away like playing outside. If any of my children are really bad they would have to stay in the spare room with no toys for a night. (i obviously not lock them in) but if i find them out of the spare room for any other reason then going to the toilet they would be picked up and taken straight back in. It is hard but i think it is so much eaiser then spanking a child i just couldnt listen to them crying knowing it was me there own mother that had hurt them.

I agree with your comments completely and those others who have shared. A house without discipline is a home without love and discipline is an essentail parental responsibility as long as it's not done done in anger.



I think its very important to always wait at least 30 minutes before spanking to ensure that you are not motivated by anger. Also it's very, very important to always spank on the bare bottom. If you spank a covered bottom you cannot see the damage you are doing and may go to far.



I use an open hand or hairbrush on younger children and sometimes the cane for older ones.

I've tried all the politically correct ways to punish my girls but they don't work.A smacked bare bottom does though.I do ground the girls as well but that comes after they've been smacked,not instead of.School holidays seem to be worse each time,they get bored,play up then complain when i smack them.Roll on September.

I have a 16 year old daughter and an 8 year old son, and me and their fatherland no harm in busting their butts if they do wrong. Our daughter seems to get in more trouble than our son, and nothing works to good on them so when they get in trouble, they bare their little hiney and get it warmed good.

i Agree youngsters need Discipline . you have my Respect . Strict Parenting Makes Good Adults That Get Jobs .

Yeo, at 16 sometimes a sore butt is all they can understand. I have been there myself at that age, had my uncle whip my *** and get me into shape.

I remember when I was 16 I was very rebellious and so my old man never hestiated to use his strap on my bare butt whenever he felt I needed it. It didn't do me any harm and in fact I'm convinced it did me a lot of good.

I don't spank my kids bare butt. Reasons we spank are like when my daughter was being disrespectful (cussed at a teacher) in school and out right told me she refused to tell her teacher sorry. After her mom spanked her, she changed her mind and said sorry. Like I spanked my son for taking my car and staying out all night. He even decided not to answer his cellphone when we called him. On top of that, when he got home he told me he was at a friend’s party, but wouldn’t tell me anything more.



On both cases they were given chances and it seemed like only a spanking got through to them.

spanking for kids she be used

i feel extra chores grounding does not work well

good spanking an all is forgiven