A couple nights ago I gave my daughter her first spanking. She is 5 years old. I have always been against spanking but she was just out if control. She is usually vary kind and well mannered. I grabbed her by the arm and pulled her skirt down and gave her a good 15 maybe 20 swats on her bum. I gave her a long hug and sent her to bed to take a nap. I felt kind of bad but I knew that was what she needed. When I woke her up after her nap her bum was still red but she was good for the rest of the day.