Spanking Cady

I have custody of my 12 year old neice Cady. She lives in my home and is ussually a well behaved child. She makes rather high grades, never talks back, and obeys what I say. She tells me I'm basically her father, and my wife is basicaly her mother. Today though, she was awfull. My wife told her to get her empty plate off the table. Cady told her to shut up. Then she came home from school and gave my wife a "progress report" showing how she was doing. Two lower grades, an 81 and a 79. I got home from work and Merideth (My wife) told me about this and about her being rude this morning. And I confronted Cady about it. "Whats this?" I say, holding up the progress report. "You tell me." she says. "I've made it ckear many times that these kinds of grades are unacceptable for someone like you!" I say. As I said, she usually makes 90's and above and really never talks back.

I told her that it wasn't acceptable, and I said hold on a minute. I turned to merideth and asked what should I do. Merideth said, "spank her little butt. Fill her mouth with soap. Doesnt matter to me" At the word spank, Cady ran upstairs. And I decided to follow. So I went up into her room, grabbed her, pulled down her shorts and panties, and took off my belt. I made her bend over like she was touching her toes. And i said "Cady, I am very dissapointed in you, You need to get your act together." After that, I slapped her butt with my belt a few times. Then, i set it down and raised my hand. She was crying and shrieking now and i told her she had caused this. Then, I spanked her butt and thighs about ten times in total. When I was done, I said stand up, and she stood herself up. She was still crying and I said put your clothes back on. And she did. Then, we both sat down on the bed and she got close to me and said "Im so sorry. I won't do it again." and i told her i hope you learned your lesson. And i rubbed her leg and she smiled and put her head on my shoulder. And then we went back downstairs. She appologized to merideth and then merrideth took her phonr for a week. And then Cady sat down and we told her that her grades were unnaceptable. And we told her I would study with her so she could get them up. Thoughts?
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If this is to continue in your home can I suggest purchasing a paddle? I spank my girls, but never with a belt. I was abused with a belt, it just sends the wrong message. A paddle is a discipline tool made strictly for disciplining the bottom of an unruly child/teen. My girls shudder when the word "paddle" is even mentioned. Just a suggestion, Goodluck!

lol, My girls mother figure prefers a flyswatter on a bare wet bottom, to each their own, just stay clear of a belt if possible. Keep up the good work with your niece! Her grades must be wonderful if you spank for an 81 and 79, I have very smart but very lazy kids...and I dont apply the paddle for grades. I dont want to send the wrong message, my girls are too sensitive and dramatic they would read way too much into it, like, my dad thinks Im stupid, they like to dramatize EVERYTHING, lol.

Sounds like she needed a good spanking and got what she earned. If you were to question her I would think she may say she needed to know you still cared and that you were still going to act and be the way that you have always been.