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Paddling Him On The Installment Plan

Just last night, I completed my husband's latest punishment in response to his irresponsible use of our household funds. He thinks of himself as a poker stud, a player with a cool game and a poker face to match. The truth is, he loses far more often than not and his so-called buddies just love to see him at the table so he can be relieved of the cash in his wallet.

Recently, he lost 200 bucks in an evening and then had the nerve to come home smelling of too much beer and passing off the loss of money as "just one of those things." I was incensed at his attitude. He is above learning how to play the game with any amount of skill and feels that a big score is always just around the corner.

I had warned him a few times that a paddling was just around the corner if he kept squandering our money. We have a mortgage and bills that must take precedence over his gambling. Wasting $200 in this economy?? I don't think so! Yet the money is lost.

The punishments my husband receives are always tied to his poor behavior. I am his wife and mistress but I do not punish without good reason. Hubby gave me a couple hundred of them and it was time to pay the price. I Informed him that he had earned that paddling that he was warned about. A swat on his bare bottom for every dollar lost seemed perfectly in order. That's right, two hundred stinging smacks! I had indulged him too long and he behaved like a buffoon. Time to make a better man of him by putting some serious wood to his bare behind.

Since this would be too much for a single session, I decided to administer twenty swats at a time. I told my husband to drop his pants and bend over the kitchen table. He pouted about having to take so many swats but I told him that losing that much money so
cavalierly had led to this so he had better drop his drawers and take his punishment like a man or there could be some bonus swats included. Needless to say, that silenced any further dissent and down came his pants and boxers! He bent over, elbows on the table and buns up, ready to receive the benefit of my discipline. I stood behind him at the right distance to bring my paddle, engraved FOR HIM, full force upon his white, curvy cheeks. They did not stay white for long!

At a regular interval so as to let him feel each swat, his punishment was carried out...

SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!
SMACK!

A short breather after the first ten gave the opportunity to ask him coolly if he thought his poker playing would improve anytime soon. "You might give some thought to taking a lesson or two before playing with our money again." I giggled. "This qualifies as a lesson, doesn't it?"

Then I delivered the second ten with equal vigor to his blazing bottom. When I was finished, he was a very sore and humble young man indeed, blubbering apologies through a puddle of tears. His butt was a gorgeous crimson and incredibly hot to the touch as I cupped his cheeks in admiration of my own handiwork. I was not moved by his tears and "I'm sorry, I'm sorry!" because I had heard this sort of thing before from him, usually after he had been spanked over my knee with a hairbrush for watching **** or mouthing off to me in front of family and friends.

A full ten sessions later, and with additional punishments reinforcing the lessons such as making him wear a butt plug at work all day, I modestly hope that his attitude toward money and its place in our marriage has been improved. I am a wife that knows her husband well enough to predict that he will be more careful with our funds only under my strict scrutiny. When he acts like a dog, he must be kept on a short leash. My paddle is kept hanging prominently in the closet. He sees it every day and I am sure that he remembers its special use whenever he sits down. As I sometimes say, my husband is growing more mature from the bottom up!

Dee xoxo
Golddiggergal Golddiggergal 36-40, F 38 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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Do you spank him when he is plugged? Adds an unique sensation to the punishment. Should only be given when the sub/maid has been very naughty. Thank you Mistress.

You must swing hard with each swat. My naughty bottom has had OVER 200 swats in one session and i have YEARNED for more

Maybe as a deterrent, you could threaten to start hanging the paddle in the kitchen, in public view. Or is no one privy to your disciplinary arrangement?

I used to be disciplined by my wife in a similar way whenever I had pushed the boundaries too far. A good spanking with her hairbrush with the resultant discomfort of a hot bottom for a couple of hours was worth the benefit of the harmony we enjoyed the rest of the time. However circumstances have changed and my behaviour is being controlled now by my local minister who found out what had gone on in the past and decided to take over the role vacated by my wife after I ran out of control one time. I am once again being well behaved now because of regular weekly visits to his study. It was very embarrassing at first to be bent over his desk to be paddled, not to mention the very acute pain I felt on my bottom as he can be very vigorous with the discipline. He occasionally takes me across his knee and spanks me which he tells me is a salutary experience for me and keeps me in my place which indeed it does. I actually can get more emotionally upset when he deals with me than I used to when my wife was in charge.

i really need that!!!!

We were packing lightly to travel to our summer home and she said with a stern smirk on her face: Don't forget to pack a couple of canes ........honey!!! I started to answer sputtering "But..but" "That's right my dear..... your butt is going to get a good stiping this weekend........I warned you about what would happen if you argued politics with my sister Eileen again." Her sister knows that I'm disciplined often by Linda.She sometimes makes up stories about my offending her.... knowing full well that linda will scorch my bottom.So after a morning at the pool, my wife escorted me to our condo, and had me lower my bathing trunks and lie down on the floor forming a "T" with my body as she sat on a chair. She placed her left foot on the small of my back and brought the cane down forcefully 20 times I then reversed my body and she delivered another 20 strokes.I had to keep my shrieks and yelps in check because the windows were open. But Unbeknownst to me Linda had called Eileen and then put the phone in the speaker mode and I could hear Eileen tittering with laughter with each swish of the cane.The welts were so prominent ,and below the trunk line, that I had to wear sweat pants the whole weekend otherwise people at poolside would see the many stripes behind my thighs.

I admire a lady that administers what her man most needs with a dispassionate skill that imparts a lesson with each stroke and stripe. You should be grateful to have a woman that spares no rod nor effort to write a new chapter of discipline on your bare bottom. If you were mine to train, your pants would come down regularly, young man. You are the recalcitrant type, just the sort I love taking to the woodshed!

We have been married a long time. I have been bad about ignoring my wife for things as simple as where we are going to eat or where we go on vacations. She recommends something and I over rule her. Even down to changing tv channels without asking her. We have a paddle and she has used it 3-4 times in the last year but only gives me 5-6 whacks. I have asked her to be more serious and even do it on a regular schedule. I could see some changes in my actions but I admit I need something forceful and painful enough that I will think every time I am about to open my mouth. We both could benefit from true discipline I wish she realized that. You sound like a woman she could learn from. Very assertive and not afraid to hand out discipline.

We also have a frat paddle hanging prominently in our kitchen. If she is administering a punishment spanking to my bare bottom, its usually two sets of 20... with corner time in between. Each swat is calmly delivered, forcefully and slowly. With cornertime, it usually takes an hour or more.. After the first 20, I'm whimpering and sobbing, while standing in the corner.She ignores my tears , does household chores or she may give herself a pedicure while enjoying the colors of my scorched bottom. Ican't described the horrible feeling that comes over me as I anticipate the 2nd set of horrendous swats on my already tenderized bottom with that frat paddle.They are delivered with out mercy, and she is deaf to my shrieking and pleas for mercy. Afterwards it is another 20 minutes in the corner and I'd better show some contriteness or there will be a 3 rd session. This happened only once...thank goodness. Punishment spankings , mean no sex for at least 2 days.... Whereas Play spankings can mean otk with the spoon ....but I have to give her tongue service first before I release and then I have clean up my mess and she usually releases again. <br />
She usually gets 2 to my 1..........or else!!!!<br />
disgraziato

Try using a strap on after the paddling. I did this to a past guy friend who was a real pig. I cut him off and told him if he wanted any more action he would have to submit to me. He agreed after 7 days of sleeping on the couch. I had him put on a pair of tights and then I burned his butt with 20 hard swats from a large paddle and then I did him with the strap on. I made him take every inch too. I rode him long and hard for 20 minutes. He actually got off from it and wanted me to do it every week. That punishment backfired but it was fun having him be the receiver instead of the giver. I am no longer with him. He was such a pig.

Bravo, Cassy! You showed that bad boy who was boss. I love your style! I frequently take my hubby from behind after paddling him. His butt is mine. Bad boys suddenly get humble when strong women blister their butts and then order them to get on all fours. Buns up, naughty boys!

Love,
Dee

Nice to hear from a gal that won't take no crap from a guy. I have a lady friend who likes to use a 3 tailed tawse on my bare butt. It stings like hell but I enjoy every stroke she gives me. The sex that follows afterwards between us is very intense.

You mention that the paddle is prominently displayed in the closet. Just guessing that your husband wouldn't want his friends to know that he gets taken over your knee and that you own his backside, so to speak. Maybe you want to display that paddle prominently where your lady friends (at least) and possibly his male friends can appreciate what a strong, lovingly discipline-oriented woman you are. That deterrent, for some people, is enough to effect a change in behavior... or so I have heard. When my mother-in-law was visiting and found the spanking implements in my wife's dresser, that alone wasn't deterrent enough for me. Should have been more prominently stored. Maybe someday I will learn...

Great story, quite a turn on. I love getting spanked or punished by my man

Thanks for the compliment, tonytom. I applaud your wife and hope your pants come down regularly, naughty boy! : p<br />
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Thank you, Daddy. I have a dominant personality but maturity in a man is always appreciated by ladies of whatever desc<x>ription. Beautiful comments! X<br />
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Dee

As a rule, I like to see men take the leadership role in their relationships. It seems like there are too few of us that are willing to step up and be the strong male presence that ladies are yearning for. But I also applaud you for disciplining your husband for squandering shared resources. His britches came down for a good reason and I figure he got the paddling he deserved. If he acts more like an adult, that won't need to happen anymore. His butt must have been as red as the two of hearts! Live and learn, young man.

Damn, you are tough! My wife gives some serious blisterings though!

If you really want him to feel the pain, ********** him making him hold your panties to his nose smelling your wet very soiled panties . Make him ***. Repaet exercise until he can't *** again.<br />
Gag him with them, bend him over and spank or paddle him.You will notice a diffrence in the pain he receives.

That is a very creative idea, sexy and dominant with a flourish. I will try it!<br />
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Dee xxoo

Gag him with your soiled panties, making sure they are very wet and smell of your scent before using them.<br />
You can use them when applying the cane.

Gag him with your soiled panties, making sure they are very wet and smell of your scent before using them.<br />
You can use them when applying the cane.

When you purchase a cane and use it,he will really cry out. I would gag him with your soiled panties with the gusset on his tongue.

You can do it to your own little man, Ma'am. Am sure his red *** is yummy too.

Your poor bottom! I wish that I could watch. Yummy!

Goldiggergal, Ma'am, as You can see, woe befall the hapless sub who dares make Ms idamae angry. :) The chastisement would be swift and terrible.

What great creativity on here! And deliciously wicked, too. ; )<br />
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Dee

Your husband needs more that just a spanking. He needs a massive dose of humiliiation in front of his friends. No money for seven days, he should be required to wear panties everyday for a week and should be made to take an enema every day for a week. And while he's purging his enema, he should be required to apologize for being such a sissy loser. As a final act, he should be required to kiss the ***, a mad passionate kiss, of all he winners.

ALL men need corporal punishment to keep them in line any Woman reading this try it,get a Paddle or a cane call him into the bedroom tell him his behavior is not acceptable tell him to bend over NOW or he will get it worse, He will comply try it and see!.<br />
I going to get paddled this evening for cussing yesterday,I'm not a wimpy type either I know my Wife is right so I accept her punishment with out questioning her...

Thank you, Toby. I admire your Mistress for understanding what you need and then applying it directly to your bare bottom. I hope a good rectal exam follows, young man. I know your lady loves to see your cheeks spread apart. Your tiny pink back door is the center of her power over you and the epicenter of your submission. Am I right or am I right? ; )<br />
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Dee xxoo

This is a great story,and i hope that your husband is learning from his mistakes. You are certainly a very wise women,and you have shown us that women do think more than men and know the priorities in their lives.I am so lucky to have found a women who thinks and acts like you, I am severely punished for my offences. But i am only allowed a small allowance and must show receipts for my expences or i loose my allowance. Mistress L controls all the finances because as a foolish male i would also waste it also. I have also found that feminization and paddles,crops and a cane will certainly change a disobedient husband. Good Luck

Thank you- It is amazing how a little lipstick, perfume or lingerie can make a grown man shake with fear (giggle)! kisses, sissy jennifer

I may try that, sissie. He would hate it so it must be a powerful punishment. Good idea!

Have you considered panty training your husband? I'll bet that he would even be more humiliated and take his punishments VERY seriously!

You are the second person to suggest that here, Paul. I should visit a little shop near home to check out their inventory. The phrase "sting of the scorpion's tail" has been on my mind for awhile. I could warn my misbehaving husband of it and let him wonder what that means! ; )<br />
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XO