Getting Fed Up

I seem to dealt with manipulative all my life. At this current moment. I have a sister. Who recently got into a problem with my brother. She seemed to be jealous of the fact that he was spending more time with me and my daughter and not her family. It seems like every time that he spends alot of time with us she gets jealous. Just recently she and my brother had a problem and she blamed everything on me. She also is now talking  behind my back to other family members and she talks openly to her own kids about it and now I am the bad guy. I am tired of the feeling like you are damned if you and damned if you don't. I don't know what do but, all i know is that i am tired of it. I feel that now I am on trial for something that i didn't even do. I have my brother staying with me right now and now it is causing problems in my own home. I have a daughter and try to protect her from this. Now my brother is pulling her into it. Can anyone shed some light on this?

Vvly7 Vvly7
36-40, F
1 Response Feb 7, 2010

One of the problems (at least in my experience) with manipulative people is that there is no way you can please them. I suppose this happens because if they show that they are pleased they loose the control they need to have to keep on manipulating. Just be your best to the people around you because everyone will notice at last who's the one with issues.