Yours? Mine?

When people sign  yours..... sound and feel so nice when someone writes that to you.    In my country when you married you become  Cecilia de  xxxxxx (YOUR HUSBAND LAST NAME)  which mean    of (YOUR HUSBAND LAST NAME)   like if the man owns you.

I can share with the person I love, my dreams, my life, my day by day.  I want him to remain his and I want to still be mine.  

 

MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia
46-50, F
5 Responses Feb 27, 2010

I think, we are nearing a dialogue regarding the meaning of commitment and love and how it effects the passions of individuals, as Self.<br />
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Commitment to one partner, is the moral conscription of righteousness. As a partner, we each, have the duty to be faithful, mentally and physically, regardless of what possibilities are available. We must forsake all but our committed partner. The reasons are too many to dedicate countless diatribes' of philosophies.<br />
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People are able, to have a partner with complete dedication and trust, without the temptation of infidelity, but only if it is in our hearts to do so. It is the responsibility of each partner to earn this faith through this very wonderful passion and commitment called Love. By this, I mean a love which both of you, as one, but not in the way which makes both of you a prisoner to the other, in a way that prevents infidelity, but encourages faithfulness. <br />
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Love is proven, by releasing your partner to be and seek their glory as an individual with your full support and encouragement to be all you can be and allowing them to have your blessings and pleasure in their honor, and vis versa. <br />
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The Eagle and Wind are a pair. one glorifies the other. To demand the pair to work together, creates an expectation which puts pressure on the Harmony. To freely lend the powers of each to make the pair, is like a Symphony and Waltz, functioning together. <br />
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My Heart breaks, as I mentions this philosophy, as I have never found my symphony. We, whoever it may have been, were never in the same place, when the time was right. So be it. I know what it is which must be found, and I know how to describe it, but I am unable to have that dance. I am not suited for the music being played, in today's lifestyles. My ideals are too old fashioned. My September has come.

The clue is to find out that our happiness comes just from our inside, and we waist time looking for it in things, people, and places. When we have it all in us to reach it.

I believe the greatest Love is to Trust. Trust is to Set Free, those you Love. The Commitment of Love, is the bond to each other. I call it; Unconditional Love.<br />
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I don't believe anyone has the words to describe True Love. It can only told through an Eternal Commitment. to each other. One that make both, one. It's a Shared Freedom.<br />
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I enjoyed reading your compassionate description of Freedom and Love. I am moved, to know there are those who understand Love and Freedom.

Thank you for reading what I wrote and what I think. They always make us think that we were born half orange and need to find our other half, nobody told us that we were born complete and that you may look for another whole orange JUST to share, even the air we breath, if possible, but letting each one have their own space in life.<br />
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No one to make us happy, but to share their own hapiness with ours.

You have described exactly how it really is..... We all own ourselves. The problem is, many people think they own someone, for some reason. That was never true, and will never be. Mankind must stand with each other to make sure this is always held true, at the cost of their lives. <br />
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Give me Liberty, or give me Death.... Patrick Henry. Slavery was Man's inhumanity to Man. We can not also own a Wife or Husband, we can only love them, always. That's our Purpose, to Love one another. Unfortunately, many still don't practice it. Shame on them.