I Don't Get It

Personally I don't live within a sexless marriage. I am not married, and I don't have a boyfriend.

I know of 3 men, who are living in sexless relationship - 2 are married and have children, and 1 is in a long term relationship with no children - and for all of these men I am the "other women" in varying degrees.

I exchange nude pictures with all of these men, I talk about sex and our wants and desires with all of them. All of these men want to have sex with me, but haven't - yet. I can see sex coming into play with these men, and I will be the other women.

I know the men with children are afraid of losing access to their children if the did get divorced, but if their wives found out about me, it would be ultimately would be worse for them. 

All of these men don't get sex from their wives, and have had some serious argument that has cause a splinting in the relationship.

I just don't get it - they are obviously not getting everything from their relationship, but are staying.

 

 

Kiie Kiie
26-30, F
Feb 25, 2009