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Lately I haven't been adding anyone, but that's not really the point here is it? No. The point here is that I always try to look at other people's profiles before adding them.

If everything you write is about sex or going to the bathroom, I am not going to add you.

If your top experiences all have to do with cybersex, I am not going to add you. I don't do that with my boyfriend, why would I do it with you?

If your main point here seems to be to "put down" other peoples beliefs, especially if they're also my beliefs, I'm not going to add you, and frankly I'm surprised you added me.

I've become very cautious about who I add to my circle lately, and I'm not really sure why, but I have. So I do have several people in my "fans" that seem to be perfectly lovely people who aren't obsessed with sex or body functions and who don't seem aimed to insult and belittle, but for some reason I haven't added them. To those people, sorry, I'm just not feeling very social and welcoming lately, hopefully soon I'll be back to my normal self and then maybe I'll be more inclined to increase my number of friends, but at the moment I feel a bit, erm, overwhelmed with the size of my circle as it is.

DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 6 Responses Mar 1, 2009

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I've always been selective, at least to an extent, it's been much more lately though and I'm not sure why, but.... Oh well.

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much information, I have a lot of those people in my fans, I don't know why, but a lot of them seem to want to read my activity, oh well, if that's what floats their boat, I just don't want to know about all of theirs. :)

Haha. =)

Word. =)

I don't much care who follows me around, I don't write anything that interesting, so I'm not sure why they add me to begin with. Besides that, the only perv I've ever blocked didn't even add me before sending me inappropriate messages, the ones who've added me, I never hear from. Odd.

What I don't get is the "un-fan" option, that some people want, if it bothers you that much block them, otherwise who cares who reads your stuff, anyone who wants to can read it whether they add you or not anyway.

Haha, did you just say "word"?

Word. I figure if they circle me but I don't add them, they can still read my stuff if they want. That alleviates some of the guilt because I'm always afraid of hurting somebody's feelings. I don't expect everyone to add me, either, but I've become much more careful about who I circle. When my friend circle gets too big, I find I miss a lot of what goes on with many of them because my activity board fills up so fast.

Now the pervs? Bah. I have no trouble blocking them. Why would I want someone with a load in their pants following me around since as a fan, that's what they can do?