My Weight

 i im 18 and currently on a gap year


i am about 5.4 and currently weigh about 57kg. i dont think im fat but the thing is all my friends are much smaller than me mainly due to the fact they dont eat very much and i eat big portions as i play a lot of sport mainly swimming.


my real problem is i just feel so big compared to them and boys always go for them over me and im starting to think its because i look big in comparsion and they have much better bodies than me

i am usually a confident girl but am starting to loose my confidence rapidly and am worried about it....i go to the gym a lot but cant seem to loose any weight i dont want to loose loads i just want to get to about 52 kg as thats what my friends are


please talk to me about it as i have no one else to talk to and i dont want it to become a big promlem

amyinaus amyinaus
2 Responses Feb 19, 2010

Hey gal. You got a nice body. Boys will fancy anything skinny. A real man really craves something fleshy. Curves will turn on any man unfortunately, a turn off to the boys.

cheer up young nubile.

I understand exactly what you are going through. The difference between us is that I am very tall. I am over 6 ft so naturally I am gonna look much bigger than most girls my age anyway. I am 19 by the way.<br />
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I have always been the tall chubby girl in whatever group I have been in, and I know how it feels when everyone around you is always first choice because they are slimmer, or smaller, or more petite than you are. To be honest, this problem plagued me for the better half of my teen and childhood years, as I was teased a hell of a lot by most of the people around me, but I have slowly learned to love myself (not in a vain way, just in a good, healthy way).<br />
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To be honest with you, at the end of the day amyinaus, you cannot change who you are, and really shouldn't have to. I just see it as the right boy not having found me yet, but when that happens, it will be worth all of this anxiety. So you should really just chill and not worry too much about this, because if you do it will eat away at you, and if you lose your confidence people will notice (after all, if you can't love yourself, how will anyone else be able to right?).<br />
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Sorry that this is so long, but I could honestly talk about this for days.....hope I helped (if even just a little bit) :)