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I Don't :(

Don't know if i am special with this or is the rest of the world just not bothered by it. I constantly find myself between people that r to busy modifying reality in their favor to care about truths (mostly young people) and nice people that lie themselves in order to go on with life and not fall in depression (mostly older generations).
I feel really overwhelmed with the emptiness of discussions i had with people to the point i don't want to do with people anymore. Some are just sadistic and lie for a living others hide in brutal ignorance and i sill cant figure which ones are the worst. Where can one separate a intended lie from a ignorance towards some realities? Its defendatly not a popular attitude to listen to both parts and be open-minded to anything that does not give u instant pleasure or gratification. I guess its because i have issues and people rather judge me by what the pack leader says than from getting to know me. I used to think that they are wright and just cold but than i guess the leader was wrong cause they had a few surprises regarding me that backfired on them just from their demented attitudes and not much to do with me.
I think people mostly need a kick in the nuts to try and find the truth what was behind that , otherwise they just build comfortable stories that backfire later. Thing is i am disgusted of most people. I see a lot of people lieing in your face and if they are caught everyone is k with it , no big deal cause they all do it. I don't cause i find it cheap and backfiring but i guess for some that is noting compared to the joy of being part of the pack.
Also i think a lot of people do it as hazing so to alienate emotionally rather than mislead logically.
defectivemoonbunny defectivemoonbunny 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2010

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well i always go after the lonelier individualistic type, but if ur bad with the popular heard u cant go to anyone. I had people not just harass me b,ut also people that would try to talk to me. I tend to find the popular type repulsive for a lot of reasons ....i guess im to wound up to socialize, i just want to talk to someone in the same situation.

That's how people are. You should tend to go after lonelier people, unless you have an in-built detecting radar for false people. Don't befriend them because their popular or rich - they're the most likely to fail you. It's not a mistake to be open-minded - however, as I said, take caution in who you make friends with. People lie - they act, and in general do anything to achieve what they want. I never had such problems - maybe it's because I'm more closed in when around strangers? I only talk back when to help or protect someone dear, or when I'm really angered and need to kick someone in the balls lol. Don't let yourself be taken by simple popularity. That's the way people get to know, and that's the way people can wiggle in your personal shell.



I also suggest making some friends online. Get to know them. After a year or so, if you're lucky and live in the same country, or, rather, town, hang out. It isn't necessary to tell any personal info, it's rather discouraged. But I met many friends through Yahoo Messenger and Facebook.



You can start with me. Want to be friends?



Hope you get lucky,

KThxBai

That's how people are. You should tend to go after lonelier people, unless you have an in-built detecting radar for false people. Don't befriend them because their popular or rich - they're the most likely to fail you. It's not a mistake to be open-minded - however, as I said, take caution in who you make friends with. People lie - they act, and in general do anything to achieve what they want. I never had such problems - maybe it's because I'm more closed in when around strangers? I only talk back when to help or protect someone dear, or when I'm really angered and need to kick someone in the balls lol. Don't let yourself be taken by simple popularity. That's the way people get to know, and that's the way people can wiggle in your personal shell.



I also suggest making some friends online. Get to know them. After a year or so, if you're lucky and live in the same country, or, rather, town, hang out. It isn't necessary to tell any personal info, it's rather discouraged. But I met many friends through Yahoo Messenger and Facebook.



You can start with me. Want to be friends?



Hope you get lucky,

KThxBai

hey, thx for the comment, quite wise, i would have liked to resume it in less words like that lol

I like this one as it relates to the old saying " You have to Stand for something or you'll Fall for anything "