Been There, Done That, Lesson Learned

Just to share my story,  when I got married I was 22 years old and he was 33, now that I think about it, it was a big mistake, because our marriage started on the wrong foot, I found out he was cheating on me, not with one but multiple females before and during our marriage, and years later I learned some of these women were prostitutes. So I stayed in the marriage without trusting him, lost respect for him little by little, for work reasons He decided to go to a foreign country for a year, we grew apart, it became a habit, and I kinda had my own life, separate from him, but still married, then I met this guy, I felt so attracted to him from the beginning and didn't feel bad about it , to make a long story short, I fell for this guy like I felt I never had before,  my ex-husband found out , and surprisingly he felt responsible for this, and tried to get me back promising everything , even trying to make me thing that I was not going to make it without him.

Shortly after that I decided I wanted a divorce, he agreed and I moved away , but ended my relationship with this other guy. Although my ex husband did me wrong I regret what I did, because 2 wrong don't make it right , just make it worst twice,

I learned my lesson, if you are unhappy with your current relationship, and there's no way of resolving your issues with that person, leave, is always better everyone is happier after the end.

chellcute chellcute
31-35, F
1 Response Feb 16, 2010

At least you admitted what you did wrong and took ownership of it and didn't make excuses.