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Being Open

I hate it when people ask me my sexual orientation. "Hey Arden, I saw you kissing a girl yesterday. Are you a lesbian?" "Didn't you date a guy last year? Are you straight?" "You must be bisexual then!" I honestly don't consider myself anything. I am strongly attracted to both men and women, but I don't consider myself bisexual. I consider myself open. If I fall in love with a man, I fall in love with a man. If I fall in love with a woman, I fall in love with a woman. I don't want to be held down by a label. I just want to be in love. <3
ASGKPFG ASGKPFG 18-21, F 24 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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You be with who you want, don't let a label hold you , you are a free girl live how and who you want

Add me?

That
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BEAUTIFUL!!!!

That's a great way to put it! Too bad all people don't think like you. :/

Heck yea girl follow your big heart. People tend to get jealous when they see someone expressing themselves freely and they don't have the guts to be free like you. Your label is that your a free spirited woman. That's what you can tell them all.

you really produce something ,hope reading this some will stop giving judgmental views about others ...

I have never like any types of labels that's why I consider myself open.

LIKE <3

very true! just being one's self should be enough.

that is good - i am lesbian but i don't want label at all! I am me, not representative of a community!

Amen to that!

thank you!

you are beautiful inside and out

thanks &lt;3

I firmly believe that the idea of sexual orientation is a relatively modern cultural invention. The ancients may have noted sexual activity outside of heterosexual norms, but they labeled the acts, not the individual.

thts the spirit..(Y)

labels, labels, labels. i think we would be better off with out a few of them. i like the way you put it open. it makes sense. you fall in love with the person regardless of sex. very well put.

PREACH!

Be you and to hell with every body else

You're awesome remember that too

YES!

I can understand that. I think experience and learning about someone is the key to understanding another person. sounds like you're just searching is all.

That is very good statement I just want to be in love wish all people would think like that, the world would be a better place.

Well said

Sometimes you just look the person asking such an insensitive question right in the eye and say "Nunya!" and walk away!

hahaha. yes!!! ^_^

I think the new term is "Pansexual". Google it and see if it more is likely to describe you.

Well, Pansexual means attracted to everyone, whereas I'm just accepting of whoever I choose to love, but I think Pansexual is the closest so far. ^_^

i agree

In the end, it really just about love.

Exactly. &lt;3