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Because Death Is Not The End, Just A Dividing Line Into The Unknown, And Not To Be Feared..

It is another beginning, and sometimes, the unknown is important to NOT know, more important in fact, sometimes!

I realize many fear the unknown, I feel fear of unknown in particular situation, especially social becuase everyone is SO unique and very often in my head when I am trying to socialize or even get words out, I am thinking:

What do you want and How do I ever give it to yuo?

The hard thing is, even if I CAN figure out what some want, then I have the challnege of figuring out how am I to give it to them?

That is more fearful for me, I sometimes wish life came iwth a "people" instruction book, but it cannot b/ we are all so unique - which is vital and great - another gift, like change - but is so hard sometimes b/c it makes socializing for me like a mine field - I choose going to the moon - metaphorically of course!

I know am off-topic, but just trying say what I feel is harder to over-come for me.

Death is unavoidable, as is dealing with others - which I want - just hard, yet natural seeing we are social beings...

Death is something to embrace, like life - to cherish, because in death, new things happen, and death is not forever, like many believe, we do not know that - maybe it means we are not PHYSICALLY like we where, but nohting is forever, even death, just a different form...

When I die, I hope people have a party to celebrate my LIFE, not weep my death - I know I will be, or hope I can be allowed to!

I also would like a poem read, it goes like this:

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!

Mary Frye (1932)

I like it, than go and have a good time, to honor my life!

I would also want the people I have touched in life, even those I may have and not known, to really live it up - because we only get one chance at life in the form we are...so I would hope they do nto mess it up to much, just a bit, we all make mistakes!

I would want people to know I tried my best, did my best, and my time had come and it was okay with me.

That no matter what, in my life, I got what was meant to be, felt loved, loved, and well...was passionate, to answer an old Greek Question...

I do not fear death, in fact, I have come to learn it is so much a part of what must happen, it is okay, to be honored and celebrated in most cases, just as life.

stigmafree stigmafree 31-35 Mar 18, 2012

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