My Beauty Is Hiding Somewhere

Thank you, I had forgotten about my attitude. There was a time that I had a positive attitude even though I was overweight. But since it started to hurt me physically, my attitude went south. Thank you very much, all of you. :)

I know exactly how you feel, I fight the same battle with myself. Somehow we do need to find a way to appreciate all that we are, regardless of our weight. Of course it's wonderful to have someone else tell you that you look great, you're wonderful, etc, etc. But it really doesn't mean much until we feel that way about ourselves. Whowasthatmaskedman, makes some great points. I've read it's not a women's weight, or her looks that really determine how attractive she is. It's her attitude, confidence, the way she carries herself. Now that we can work on. I'm in if you are. Let's give it a shot.

You are beautiful. I know it's hard when we gain weight to feel femanine. That picture on your avatar is really pretty if that's you.



There will be someone special someday who finds you beautiful as well. Hugs.

O.K. I'm confused. (Normal for a man in this area, I know.) But I just don't get it.Beauty as I understand it, is skin deep. One look at Paris Hilton sends shivers down my spine and not in a good way. She is a black hole of a human being, with no redeeming qualities and ugly clear through to the bone in my book. No beauty there, in spite of what some women seem to think.Or are we actually talking about attractiveness? In that case, it's got nothing to do with appearance. Its pure attitude. Mae West had it in spades. Not classically beautiful, but attractive as all get out. Queen Latifah looks at the camera and it melts. All it takes for a woman to be attractive to men is a look that says "I enjoy men and I could enjoy you". It's just that simple. (Like men) So what are you failing to feel? Beautiful? I doubt it, you seem perfectly nice. Or attractive? In which case I suggest an attitude adjustment and reality check. Either way, I see no relevence to your weight.

If thats you in the display picture...you have the most gorgous lips ive ever seen on anyone...EVER!

Yes, I know exactly how you feel........ I feel the same way, and when I do get ready, and feel beautiful my husband doesn't give me a second glance!!!!!!!!! You look very pretty in your picture....but I know what your saying about the weight, because I have gained weight, but I still think I am pretty, at least I still get attention.....but it isn't from my husband that's for sure.....I don't act on it.....but pretty sad, when your own husband doesn't take notice to you.......