Only So Many Times...

I am a creature of habit... I don't forgive easily and can hold grudges for years! I do forgive people, but after so many times, I quit. And there is rarely anything a person can say or do to make me change my mind. That's why it's best not to **** me off too many times. Life is short and I rather not spend it forgiving a person this day, and this day, and that day, and so on. Especially when it's the same thing, over and over again!

This may make me mean, but I can't do it. Once I express what hurts me or makes me uncomfortable or upset, I shouldn't have to put up with it any more than three times! If the person truly respects me, it wouldn't happen over and over. Unless they are a jerk and just don't care!

And once I no longer forgive, that person is locked out of my life... for good!

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1 Response Jul 29, 2008

Same Here.