I Don't Get Along With My Mom

I was taken in by my friends mom about 6 months ago, and everything was great she always told me she loved me everymorning and I knew she was always going to be there for me. Now it seems like she can't stand the sight of me. She never tells me she loves me or anything. I will admit I can be a brat at times and annoy her but I don't think she loves me anymore. She wont even talk to me in the car. If one of her kids are on the car she will talk to them but not me. She tells me I joke to much and, I agree, it's not just her it's me to. All I want to know is how I can make our relationship better and get along so were a happy family. I love her as my mom and shes been supporting me and I don't know where I'd be of it wasn't for her. God has blessed me so much! I feel like I'm a bother to her, I just want us to all get along! She will get really mad if I do one little thing to joke around.
Can someone help me? I need to know what I can do so it will be the same.
BrandonHernandez BrandonHernandez
18-21
2 Responses Jan 29, 2012

I have tried to get a job many times and still put in applications, she will help me fill them out and stuff like that. I didnt really help around the house and I have started helping with that! She will offer to do everything for me such as wash my clothes and buy me things I need, but I do understand about getting a job and show her I'm trying. Sometimes the littlest things she will do towards me makes me mad, but then I'll get upset and she will think im pouting. I joke with her and she joked around with me but she always thinks I get mad and I don't, but it makes me mad when she thinks I'm man but I'm not. She always seems to be mad, I think I'm part of the problem she is always mad or upset and I don't know why. I wish I could go to counseling and try to work on my behavior and do what's right! Its just hard for me.

I mean I have gave her a hard time, and she's like my adopted mom, she took me in 6 months ago because my biological mother did not support me and we moved around from different men's houses and her other sons dad would hit me and abuse me. Im not talking to my biological mom, I'm not sure how to get my relationship better with my adopted mom, we tend to get on each others nervs since I'm home all the time I only go to school Monday and Tuesday for 3 hours. I just need to help to make it better and what I should do to make her less irritated.