Though he wasnt always, he gave me a very hard time when I was getting child support. I worked 60 hours a week just to make ends meet and when child support saw my check stubs I was given less than I thought cause it coutned against me. He was fired from his job for sexual harrassment, although he claims they just downsized the multimillion dollar company by 1, in January!! Originally I agreed to stop collecting support but had a bad feeling about the original agreement. I had "some" sympathy. I did finally give it up in June, and since then I have had no help with our children since then. I bought them all their school clothes, all their supplies, shoes bookpags etc. I even kept the recipts so that I could show him that I wasnt just trying to get his money. He didnt want to see them cause he apparently has no intention of helping me with our boys. he claims I was taking too much for the year of support I got and now I have to let him have the year to catch up because of the overpayment and no job. He apparently is working now but God forbid him sending $20 bucks my way to help!! He tells our boys that I stole money when it was legally given to me by the courts so that I dont have to just go on his word. This bit me in the *** big time!! I wanted to give him a chance to do the right thing and all he did is screw me!! ARRRRRRRRRRRRGH!! What am I supposed to do? Thank God the wonderful man in my life wants to help although it still doesnt make it right that their working father isnt helping. I make a great living on my own and I have made sure that my boys have what they need and want as much as I can. This wont go on forever I hope but God help me not to want to hurt him!!