Every dog has its day. I am strong and capable and I will not be defeated by my mistakes. I made them. I made my bed. I lie in it and deal with it everyday. I was told I was nothing. I was told I could never survive. The memories of who I was and how long I survived on my own. After moving out of my parent's home at the age of 20 and maintaining a 4 bedroom home alone. How could he make such judgements. It became very clear that I was married to someone who didn't know me at all.
He doesn't pay child support now and it has been two years since I've recieved even $5.00 from him but the day will come. I'm looking forward to it. I'm not looking forward to receiving the money per say but looking forward to his wake up call. You cannot walk away from your children and pretend they don't exist. There is a cost for every action.
After two years of waiting he finally paid child support for three months before quitting his job. He doesn't come and visit his children still. What a looser!