I Need More Female Friends.
I wish I had more female friends. I only have a few girl buddies and only one I hang out with regularly. The problem is that I find many girls to be bitchy, judgemental and fickle. I have had girlfriends team up and edge me out of the circle and another girlfriend suddenly stop talking to me, with no explanation when I tried to talk about it. And this is not in high school either. This is in our 30's! I don't understand how people can be so labile and throw away friendships so easily. Is there some sort of competition between us girls that I don't know about?
I have always got along better with guys because they are more laid back, accepting and stable. However, although I have had many male friends, in my experience most guys want something more. True platonic friendships with the opposite sex are rare.
I would prefer to have close group of girlfriends than guy friends because I think women understand each other better. But guys are fun to hang out with too.