I dont need the big fancy house and the car, the lavish job. All i really ever wanted was that happy family. i know people argue. but i wanted that loving family. i wanted a husband and at least two kids. i have been married for 4 years now, still no kids and it is killing me. i just turned 30. i am so sad about all of this. and the way we are going it doesnt seem as if things will change.