Others - I Will Never Do This ....

No one starts their life, sets there goals and dreams as I want to have an abortion, or I want to have an affair, or I hate all people.  Something in their lives prompted these actions.

It is WAY too easy for people in the world to judge all of us, using societal standards, social mores, cultural beliefs, religion. 

I can't do this - I WILL NOT do this. Why? 

I strongly believe, to truly, TRULY understand where another person is coming from, you have to have walked in their shoes - EXACTLY in their shoes with no deviation from the path.  UNTIL certain life events happen to you, and you yourself feel the effects and the fall out from the events, you will never truly know the entire makeup of what people use to shape and form their decisions. The hurt, the betrayal, the loneliness -- and by people in their lives that they trusted above ALL others.

If you try to do one good thing today - think of the hurting person as a PERSON - with feelings, emotions, conflicts and resolutions - before you pass judgment on them.

You may be passing by the opportunity of a great friend if you only judge on one life event ....

No one person or group/clique/party has the right over another person to judge them.  Leave the judging to their creator.

 

MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
36-40, F
7 Responses Feb 15, 2009

It is not our job to judge. That is left to a higher power. But we should help where possible. Even if we disagree about something someone else says, we shouldn't judge them because of it. If we all thought and felt the same, what a boring world this would be.

I agree with oldskool... Spot on!

That is great to hear musicspirit. I think sometimes it is way to easy for people to treat others as ob<x>jectS and not as a PERSON. Wehn you start dehumanizing others - that is when it becomes easy to judge, hurt and wound. Wehn you realize that the other person IS a person - that's when your feelings or comapssion come through.

"If you try to do one good thing today - think of the hurting person as a PERSON - with feelings, emotions, conflicts and resolutions - before you pass judgment on them. "<br />
This is exactly how I see things. I don't like to feel judged myself, so I always try not to do so to others.

Thanks - I agree.

Me to its a story that is spot on and you are right in every sense!

Thank you Athena!! :)