I Don't Need Any Help, But Can We Talk.
A lot of people come to see me. They start out their conversation with " I don't need any help, but can we talk?"
That's the key to helping, let others talk.
People feel better about themselves if they can talk without:
Many times people can answer their own questions and then thank me for my help. Sometimes I say nothing at all.
It's ok to ask for help.
It's ok to ask.