It's Not Our Fault
I've come to really notice, that we read on many sites, and here from many people that when we are having any form of problem, we need to get help. We are given every step except the first step which is actually having to ask for help; we are told to do it, but we are never told HOW to ask for help. We dont know where to go or who to ask: we are left with the constand proding to go get help.
I really wish websites that are SOOO dedicated to helping people and saving lives (so modest...), would actually tell those people how to ask for help. Like literally give some starter lines or something. I know for me it was a) Not knowing WHERE to go, and b) When I got there, not knowing WHAT to say.
I guess to solve the problem you need to follow the Who, What,When,Where,Why and How ... well for some of them.