I know that there are ups and downs to every relationship. But i feel my downs are irrelvent. You see, if i get mad at my boyfriend, he then gets mad at me for getting mad. Whatt??.. yeahh i know. And i have always bin the one to give in and talk to him first. Idk, i feel like life is to short to be spending it fighting and ignoring each other so i am always the one calling him. Then after i call him i go,
"babe whats wrong?"
"babe, you can talk to me",
"Its cuzz you get mad for dumb reasons"
and then i say, "if it hurts my feelings its not a dumb reason. "
and then it stays quiet for 10-15 minutes and i say
"hello?.. Babe im sorry if i got you mad"<---- that right there, why do i say sorry, he hurt my feelings.
he says " its ok babe, im sorry "
But if i dont call him he wouldnt have called me. He can go on for days.
ahh, i put him first for eveything and he doesnt return the favor.
Does anyone feel the same?