My Crush...

Okay, so I'm going to a new school and I've been going for a couple of weeks now. Im 14 and in 8th Grade, I know alot of people there because my best friend goes there.
Anyways there's this guy who goes there. He's like the mean jerk type of guy, he's not mean(or from what I've seen so far.) but he gives off that vibe. And he's always getting in trouble, like detention, suspended, pink slips, getting warnings, and that kind of stuff.
We keep catching each others eyes in class, and he's been nice to me so far. He even waved at me in P.E.
Also he's really tall, like as tall as most of the teachers, and super skinny! while I'm 5"2 and 222lbs :/ Im afraid due to him being the "jerk" type of vibey person that if he ever found out I like him he'd be like eww your fat or something. (also today we did a project and we had to make little people and he kept commenting on how his was so obese and fat, not the type of thing I want to hear if I like him and I'm bigger)
I'm also very shy when it comes to talking to guys. And I don't even know how to flirt, or kiss. I've never had a boyfriend so that adds to it too. Ususally when I talk to guys I tend to either maky rude comments(not on purpose) or be very joking, just to make them laugh. I also just like to laugh at all their jokes it's easier than talking.
So basically I am looking for advice. What do you think, does he like me? Or is he just being nice? Should I talk to him more? If I should then how? How can I stop getting so nervous around guys, and stop saying rude things? And if I should flirt, then how do I? And how do I have a boyfriend? Thanks(: -TheFunnyGirl
TheFunnyGirl TheFunnyGirl
18-21, F
3 Responses Dec 9, 2012

well there are two options: he likes you or he's playing with your feelings!
I think he 70% knows you got a crush on him! 30% for dubts!
so to prevent any heart break, befriend him first! show him who you really are and don't be negative about your weight because when a guy likes a girl, he mostly doesn't care about her physics

I don't think not knowing how to flirt is a liability. Just be yourself. If you can't be yourself when you're with a guy, I don't think he is worth pursuing.

I would just continue as friends first and then you will get to know who he really is and if he is worthy of being your boyfriend then you will know what to do. It sounds like you already know how to flirt and just didn't realize it:)