Not Sure I Love My Husband

A year after we were married my husband cheated on me with his ex wife. We worked that out and spent the next 9 years happy or I thought. He came home one day and said he didn't want to be married said he loved me but felt like he was keeping me from my family they r in NY. Said he wanted to spend more time on work didn't want to answer to anyone a lot of bs. Any way I left. We continued to talk and he came and seen me. We decided to work it out again. This was in august last year. Well he said he couldn't come till april cause a bonus at work. In nov I started seeing someone. Long story short I'm back with my husband but not sure I want to be here. I'm angry with him. And think about the other person a lot. I don't know wht to do.
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1 Response Nov 27, 2012

First of all, welcome to EP! This is the right place to find someone like you and someone who understands you.

Think about how you will feel in 5 years with your husband, and how you will feel in 5 years with the other man.
Think about which one you see yourself with, which one you really want, which one is more likely to be the Man Of Your Life.

Thank you...