It sucks to be an older woman...Your man loses interest, the guys stop checking you out, the dates dry up, the sex is either dutiful or ************, and every time you look in the mirror you realize it just gets worse from here.
This after a whole life time of being told the pretty girl gets the life. After being complimented on your looks instead of your achievements. The barrage of beauty products to hide aging, the comments of guys who insist 30+'s should "just stock up on cats".
It's no wonder older women are obsessed with becoming a MILF
wanderingwacky wanderingwacky
41-45, F
10 Responses Mar 5, 2015

You are not old by any stretch and women can remain attractive and sexy and vibrant for a long time if they take care of themselves and have the right attitude.

I honestly think you're attractive. And sex appeal comes from brain.

Thanks MILF x

Very attractive

Have you and your husband discussed your feelings and frustrations.
How does he feel anout the lack of intimacy. Does he often ********** instead of cominf to you for comfort.
Are there other factors like ED due to stress, lack of confidence, uneffective communication, exc

I also wanted to ask a question if that would be ok

I feel for you. I am in my 40s and have been with my lady for over 20 yrs. I still find her as attractive as the day we met. And yes now its not just a physical attraction. having said that I do find mature women very sexy and attractive.

Sometimes I feel the same way. In spite of the fact that people routinely think I'm about 10 years younger than my real age. ;-) I don't bother to correct them [g], but I feel bad because I know the real truth.
On the plus side, this means that "younger men" are now actually grown-ups. A man 5 years younger than me once wanted me, and he looked older the I did! Also, as 2BlossomBlue says, you can still do the things that preserve your appearance.
And, some older women are still considered sexy. When I grow up, I want to be Helen Mirren!

I love older woman add me please

I think ur beautiful!